In His Own Words
About him
Hi. Thanks for reading my profile.
Genuine guy here, easy going, intelligent kind and caring. Married for over 40 years but now 3 years widowed.
Retired from a London based career in banking and financially secure with own home etc.
Family orientated I socialise with family and friends very regularly but missing that special woman in my life.
Various interests including theatre visits to London, particularly enjoy musicals and the occasional ballet.
Visiting galleries and museums as well.
Days out to the coast and country. It's nice to stroll along by the sea or visit a lovely garden or NT place.
I'm a member of the NT and RHS.
Certainly enjoy restaurant and pub lunches, evening meals as well.
Or just meeting up for coffee cake and chat.
I'm a member of the local health club and try to keep fit with mostly swimming nowadays.
Well travelled, both short and long haul, I enjoy city breaks and longer holidays both UK and abroad.
Photos 2024 & 2025.
About his ideal match
A warm caring woman in her 60's or 70's. Living fairly locally or within a reasonable driving or train distance.
Someone to meet with regularly for days out to the coast and country. London theatre visits etc. City breaks and longer holidays both home and abroad. And hopefully In time to develop into a committed relationship.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Chelmsford (CM1), Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
76 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Ask me later | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district CM1 (Chelmsford) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
66 - 76 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 9" (176cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short; Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Heavy Metal; Pop / Top 40; Punk; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Travel |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Educational; Motoring; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Interests: |
Business news; Card games; Gardening; Internet; Investing; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Athletics; Badminton; Bodyboarding; Cricket; Fishing; Football (Soccer); Running; Snooker; Swimming; Tennis; Walking; Weight training |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Coupling Up: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |