In His Own Words
About him
I like a good laugh in any form. I love going to gigs, listening to and playing music.
I also love grub, especially stuff I’ve never tried before.
I’m very sociable and going to bars and venues but, I’m also happy to chill somewhere in the quiet every now and then. Well, quiet, but not silent.
I’m 40 and about 6ft. I’m balled, but I have a great facial hair, so I’ve been told.
I’ve never done this before.
About his ideal match
I’m an old fashion gent I think, but I’m also very progressive and extremely liberal. I like good people with good manners. That’s it really. Not sure I have a type other than people who smile a lot.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Oxford, Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
40 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye colour: |
Grey | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Medical / Dental / Veterinary | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 200 miles of postcode district OX44 (Oxford) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
30 - 55 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Above Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Pleasure |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Black |
Hair style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Several tattoos |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Country & Western; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Punk; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; Scottish; World |
Reading: |
I read magazines regularly; I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Business news; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; Singing; The arts; Writing poetry |
Sports: |
Baseball; Camping; Cricket; Darts; Football (Soccer); Hiking; Ice Hockey; Mountain biking; Pool; Rugby; Skateboarding; Softball; Surfing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; Weight training; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Take drugs: |
Socially |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Retirement plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using Coupling Up: |
Nervous; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |