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bornseeking

56 – Southampton, Hampshire, England

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bornseeking

56 – Southampton, Hampshire, England

Hoping to find someone I feel entirely comfortable with

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Online: Sunday

Modified: 09 October 2025

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In His Own Words

About him

I'm a laid back relaxed introvert (ISFJ if that's your thing), not into football or drinking. I'm not into partying and ideally like to be in bed by 10 :)
I like spending my time reading, doing yoga, meditation along with activities like cycling, paddle boarding and hiking . I love being out in nature and am developing a hitherto hidden adventurous side. I have an irreverent sense of humour and can find humour in most things. [Removed]

About his ideal match

I’m looking for someone who is relaxed, comfortable in their own skin, active, intellectual and wants to live life.

Dogs over cats
Slow over fast
Quiet over loud
Mornings over evenings
Space over clutter
Nature over cities

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Southampton, Hampshire, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
56
Star sign:
Taurus
Height:
5' 10" (178cm)
Body type:
Athletic
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Light Brown
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University / College student
Occupation:
Executive / Management
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Ask me later

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 40 miles of postcode district SO15 (Southampton)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
50 - 59
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 11" (181cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily; Vegan
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally
Education:
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Irreverent
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Cautious; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Independent; Intelligent; Melancholy; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Compassion; Contentment; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness
Fashion sense:
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms)
Favourite colour:
Green
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; Straight; Well-behaved
Eyesight:
I wear bifocals
Facial hair:
I have a full beard
Body hair:
Light
Disabilities:
I have a chronic illness
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Blues; Pop / Top 40; Rock
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally
Books:
Fantasy; Fiction; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Motoring; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sport
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Action; Comedy; Drama
Interests:
Cooking; Healthy living; Meditation; Politics
Sport involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
American Football; Athletics; Badminton; Camping; Cycling; Gymnastics; Hiking; Rock climbing; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Walking; Weight training; Yoga
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Indian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
Lactose-free
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I work part-time
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Family size:
I've got a sister
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Dog(s)
Turn-ons:
Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Work fewer hours
Religious attendance:
Never
Dream home:
Eco home in the countryside
Politics:
Left of centre
Feelings about using Coupling Up:
Hopeful; Curious; Jaded
Honesty:
Extremely