In Her Own Words
About her
Naturally introverted with a quiet confidence, I value my independence but genuinely treasure quality time with the person I’m close to. I’ve been single for almost two years now, intentionally focusing on myself, my growth, and my career. I always imagined I’d be married with children by this age, but life had other plans — I just haven’t met my person yet.
I work in a creative, luxury-focused industry, leading a team behind the scenes. I recently considered relocating to the city for what felt like a dream role; life reshuffled the deck, but I’m steadily working my way toward the career path I want, driven by determination (and a touch of perfectionism).
Family means the world to me. I’m close to my parents, adore my baby niece, and truly cherish time with the people I love.
Music is a big part of my life — just listening, unfortunately, as I can’t sing or play — but it’s one of the things that brings me comfort, inspiration, and a sense of calm.
I dip in and out of weight training and enjoy the discipline it brings. I also like taking care of myself and my appearance — though I’ll openly admit I hate the process of aging. Friends jokingly call me [Removed] for my way of being though don’t be misled, I have a crass sense of humour at times!
About her ideal match
I’m looking for something serious — no time wasters, no uncertainty, no men who don’t know what they want. I’m drawn to someone driven, grounded, sincere, and kind. A partner who values honesty, integrity, commitment, family - and nice things within their means! Someone who wants marriage, children, and a comfortable, loving life built together.
Confidence is wonderful, but respect, emotional maturity, and genuine appreciation for your partner matter far more.
If you’re looking to build something real with someone thoughtful, loyal, quietly confident, and ready for her next chapter… I’d love to meet you.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Maidstone, Kent, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
36 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 3" (160cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district ME20 (Aylesford) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
35 - 48 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 8" (204cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; HR / Recruitment | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Cautious; Faithful; Generous; Independent; Loving; Loyal; Melancholy; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Honesty; Humility; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for drinks; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Mystery; Romance; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Documentary; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Cooking; Investing; Music; Pottery; Reading |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Swimming; Weight training; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Honesty: |
Extremely |