In His Own Words
About him
My friends would probably describe me as loyal, driven, and the one who's always willing to help out when someone needs it. I'm a Scottish lad living in the North East, a Royal Navy veteran, dad to two brilliant boys, and founder of a successful community-focused not-for-profit.
I love good conversation, a laugh that leaves your face hurting, exploring new places, and spending time with people who are genuine and kind. I'm passionate about building communities, supporting others, and making a positive difference where I can.
When I'm not working, you'll usually find me catching up with friends, enjoying a decent coffee, getting outdoors, or planning my next adventure. Life's taught me not to take things for granted, so I try to make the most of every day.
If you're looking for someone who's emotionally mature, knows how to communicate, can make you laugh, and isn't afraid of a little mischief now and then, we should probably get to know each other. 😉
About his ideal match
My ideal match is someone kind, genuine, and emotionally intelligent. Someone who can communicate openly, laugh at themselves, and isn't afraid of a bit of banter. I'd love to meet someone who has their own passions and ambitions but also values quality time together.
A strong relationship, for me, is built on trust, honesty, respect, and being able to support each other through life's ups and downs. Whether it's a spontaneous day out, a weekend adventure, a quiet night in, or putting the world to rights over a coffee, I'd like to find someone who enjoys doing life as a team.
Deal breakers would be dishonesty, a lack of kindness, or someone who isn't willing to communicate when things get tough. Life's too short for games, I'm looking for a genuine connection with someone who's ready for something real.
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Sunderland, Tyne & Wear, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
40 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district SR4 (Sunderland) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
30 - 47 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Sarcastic; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Short; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
I have a mental condition |
Body art: |
Several tattoos |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Country & Western; Punk; Rock |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Music; Woodwork |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Rugby |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I should have a bed in my office |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Coupling Up: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |